Friday, December 30, 2011

Ella, yesterday your great grandmother passed away. My grandma Lupita, also known as Walter to my dad and uncle. Your GGG (Great Grandma Garcia) was an inspirational person. She lived her life simple and to the fullest. She loved with no reservation and no judgement. She brought up four children and many of those years she did it alone. She and I never communicated very well verbally. We were very affectionate with each other though. Always a hug and a kiss and arms around each other often. She was very comfortable holding you and your brother Brooks. You both slept in her arms at one point. She would pat you on the back and her small hands looked big against your tiny torso. She made you smile and you bounced around on her lap less than a month ago. I am sorry you will not get to grow up with her warm embrace and her amazing tamales at Christmas. I wish you could know her as I knew her. Kind, gentle, funny, playful, God-loving and loyal. The best grandmother, mother and friend. I will do my best to honor her life. I learned a lot from her that I hope to pass on to you in my actions. I will miss her dearly. Rest in peace sweet Walter, all that you have given will be with us always.